Whether the pressure originates from external demands or internal compulsion, there is no ceiling to how much work there is to do. While there are systemic issues that need to be addressed here, the focus of this post is not on changing the system, but rather, on how to protect yourself and thrive within systems that will always ask for more.
Successfully navigating career transitions requires strong self-awareness, knowledge of new areas, expanding one’s network, sharpening job search “tools,” and managing the emotions of new challenges.
There’s a level of discomfort or even embarrassment that comes along with the idea of considering what you really want. Negative thoughts creep in the shadows of your mind. Fear or doubt become the hidden rudder that keeps you on course with the expected norms for your life.
She felt stuck, pigeon-holed, and frustrated; and she had no idea if or how she could move forward. On paper things looked great, but if she was being honest, she dreaded Monday mornings, felt guilty not giving more to her kids, and resented not being promoted.